My Bowel Endometriosis Story: How I Finally Got a Diagnosis

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Just over a month ago, I was waking up from laparoscopy surgery between the starchy sheets of a Michigan hospital bed. Above the overwhelming nausea and the muzzy anaesthesia brain, I was given my results: endometriosis. Specifically, adhesions and bowel endometriosis

Endometriosis is a chronic illness: There is no cure, and it is progressive. Doctors don’t know what causes it. But what was the feeling that came over me when I heard the verdict? Relief. 

“If you desire healing, let yourself fall ill.”

-Rumi

I have been searching for answers to my symptoms for so long – years really, but these past eleven months I have been treating my search for a diagnosis like a full time job. I’ve had needles poked in my back and barium enemas and X-rays and radioactive pills and allergic reactions and ridiculously restrictive diets and at one point, a literal balloon stuck up my bum (this is called a manometry… it wasn’t fun). I’ve had to drive long distances for medical appointments at specialist facilities like the University of Michigan Taubmann Center – scratch that, I’ve had to have family drive me because I would be in no shape to get myself home after the procedures.

So to get a diagnosis, an answer, even an incurable one? I can work with that.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
Smiling before surgery, like a maniac.

What is endometriosis?

Before I go into my personal health journey and bowel endometriosis story, you should know a little bit about the condition. It will be easy to keep this section brief, because not nearly enough research has been done on endometriosis (despite roughly the same number of people having it as have diabetes).

Endometriosis occurs when tissue similar to the tissue that lines the uterus grows outside the uterus. This causes chronic abdominal inflammation, internal bleeding, irritation, autoimmunity, estrogen dominance, and more.

Symptoms can include intense pain, heavy and painful periods, diarrhea, constipation, painful bowel movements, chronic fatigue, migraines, nausea, infertility, and so much more. The only way to diagnose endo is through surgery, and although there are ways to treat its symptoms, it cannot be cured.

One in 10 women have endometriosis. Yet the utter lack of awareness and research on it could be why it takes women on average 7-10 years to get a correct diagnosis. (I have a lot to say about that figure in relation to the patriarchy of the medical system and how women’s bodies have been medicalized historically #ThanksForNothingFreud)

How I got diagnosed with bowel endometriosis

Grab yourself a cup of tea or coffee and sit down for a long story, friends.

‘Are you sure it isn’t in your head?’

‘Just drink more water.’

‘Well nothing showed up on your tests so you must be fine.’

‘It’s just IBS. Everyone has that.’

These are just a few things I heard (and said to myself) before my diagnosis. And I cannot portray how painful each of them is when you are truly suffering, but unable to find an answer to why you are suffering. Are you making it all up?

One thing that helped me cope with this isolation and frustration is sharing my health journey on my blog and on Instagram, which is why I’m writing this today – I hope I can give some solidarity and insight to others going through something similar.

I have struggled with my health since a young age, but after my doctor told me I had celiac disease in 2012, and I went on a strict gluten free diet, many of my symptoms dissipated. Unfortunately four years later, in 2016, I started developing new digestive symptoms. 

My primary symptom was constipation: I experienced constipation for 7-12 days at a time, for months in a row. This caused me so much emotional distress. It also caused me internal bleeding, bleeding and pain with bowel movements, chronic fatigue, lower abdominal pain, nerve pain shooting into my legs, bloating, distention, acne, anemia, vitamin deficiencies, memory loss, and more. I didn’t even consider tracking my symptoms alongside my cycle, because that was so irregular (sometimes being on my period for over a month at a time).

I feel that is is very important to mention that this was all very difficult to deal with as someone in her early 20s. I went from a girl who loved to travel, take risks, adventure, do yoga and run, and yes to go out partying and dancing with friends. To go from this energetic person to someone who could only eat one bite before bloating up like a 9-month pregnant woman, or having one pint of cider on a night out and spending the rest of the night in pain and miserable, suffering the consequences for days afterward… it was horrible.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
Okay in this photo you can see the fear in my eyes a bit better 😛

The search for a diagnosis: Irritable Bull…I mean Bowel Syndrome

Naturally, on my search for a diagnosis, I was focused on my digestive system and so were my doctors. However both my colonoscopy and Sitz Marker Test came back mostly normal, ruling out Crohns, Colitis, and Chronic Intestinal Pseudo Obstruction.

As a result, my gastroenterologist told me I had Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). IBS is the worst kind of diagnosis. It is a diagnosis of exclusion… basically, if your doctor can’t easily figure out what’s wrong with you, they throw you in this ‘waste basket’ diagnosis. Two people can have IBS but have completely different pathologies and therefore different diseases. It felt like my doctors were giving up on me because my case wasn’t easy for them to solve.

Nevertheless… there are definitely some proven treatments for IBS, so this is what I turned to. First, under a dietitian’s guidance, I did the Low FODMAP diet, a miracle for those with IBS. My constipation and other symptoms only got worse. Then my gastroenterologist cycled me through three IBS-C medications (Linzess, Trulance, and Amitiza). These are all extremely strong IBS medications yet they had no effect on me even at their highest dosages (apart from Amitiza, which gave me an allergic reaction).

At this point I went back to my gastroenterologist, crying for help. I couldn’t possibly have IBS if nothing for IBS helped me, could I?! Nothing so far had done anything for my symptoms and they were getting worse. I was so tired I could hardly stand my part time job, and even though I was living at home I was exhausted each day. Everything I ate caused me bloating and constipation. My pain was never my “main” symptom but I started having these intense lower abdominal pains, that is best described as a particularly spiky sea urchin slowly rolling through my organs.

Onto the gastroenterology specialists…

Out of her depth, my local gastroenterologist referred me to the specialists at University of Michigan, one of the very best gastro centers in the USA. It was here that I had my manometry and defecography diagnostic procedures. These (painful, invasive) tests found that I had diminished pelvic muscle tone, and a rectocele (a prolapse of the colon typically due to childbirth or, in my case, chronic constipation).

I went back to my local gastroenterologist with these findings, wondering why do I have a rectocele? Why do I have low muscle tone? These just seemed like further symptoms of a larger problem, and not a solution in and of themselves. All my gastroenterologist did was refer me to pelvic physical therapy, and warn me that if physical therapy didn’t work, then we would go ahead with the bowel resectioning… AKA chopping off part of my intestines.

This was probably the lowest point of my entire journey. I cannot tell you how many doctors parking lots I sat in my car in, sobbing. I felt like nobody wanted to get to the bottom of my problems, they just wanted to drug me up or chop up my insides. I began to wonder if I was really sick? Was this all in my head?  I was hopeless and felt like I was the only one fighting for my health, and I was too exhausted to continue.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
Waiting to be brought in for surgery. I braided my hair because I wouldn’t be able to shower/reach up to brush my own hair for days post operation.

A good doctor changes everything…

It was around this time that a miracle happened. My normal primary care doctor retired and I got a new one in the same practice, Dr. Liz. Dr. Liz is the best primary care doctor I’ve ever had. She is open minded, she listens, and above all she advocates for me. Really, isn’t this what the role of any doctor should be? Yet I’d never experienced that until I met her.

I should probably mention at this point that through this whole journey, I was completely aware of endometriosis. My mother and grandmother both had severe endo. Sometimes when I mention this to people now, they ask me “why didn’t you ask about this sooner? Why didn’t you do anything?”. This attitude of shaming and blaming the patient (me, in this case!) is hugely problematic, but so common when it comes to endometriosis.

To explain why it took so long for endometriosis to come up, though, I’ll explain. I was trying to solve digestive problems, not reproductive problems. Much of the media and gynecologists’ limited education on endometriosis consists of “it’s just a bad period.” This is what I thought endo was. And because (at that point) I didn’t have the horrible periods typical of endometriosis, I didn’t consider it for years. I figured that I’d deal with endometriosis when and if I ever wanted to have children, because another thing endometriosis is often reduced to is its symptom of infertility.

I did mention endometriosis to my gastroenterologist once and they just said “yeah but we would have found that during the colonoscopy” and brushed it off (which, I’ve learned…. not true! Endo grows outside organs, not in them. The only endometriosis that would show up in a colonoscopy is deep infiltrating endometriosis at an extremely advanced stage).

When IBS is actually endometriosis…

Faced with the prospect of a bowel resectioning, I turned to my friend Google Scholar. I stumbled across the article “Endometriosis and irritable bowel syndrome: a dilemma for the gynaecologist and gastroenterologist.” I think my jaw actually dropped. I did another quick search which led me to this speech by Dr. Ken Sinervo at an Endometriosis Foundation conference called “When IBS is Really Endometriosis on the Bowel.”

Bolstered by my findings, I went into Dr. Liz. I presented my theory to her, the fact endometriosis runs in my family, and asked her to help me. If my gastroenterologist was considering resectioning my bowel, then at the very least I deserved to have one final thing investigated, right?

From here, everything went very fast. Dr. Liz not only agreed my theory was worth investigating, but she personally went to a gynecologist in her practice and argued my case to her. I think this made a huge difference in my journey because, unfortunately, most doctors are more likely to listen to each other than to their patients.

A week later, I walked into my OB/GYN appointment and was told the only way to diagnose endo was via surgery. Forty minutes later, I was scheduled for a diagnostic laparoscopy surgery in five day’s time.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
wish I knew who to credit for this photo but…. relatable, much?

My final diagnosis of bowel endometriosis

The surgery confirmed that I do have endometriosis – but it’s more complicated than that (as I’ve learned, things usually are with endometriosis). In addition to endometriosis implants, my intestines were, in my surgeon’s words, ‘massive and inflamed.’ But the most important finding was adhesions. Adhesions are membranous scar-like tissue that grow due to inflammation, injury, or infection. They are very common for people with endometriosis. My surgery revealed that both my ascending and descending colons were completely wrapped in adhesions, both constricting them and ‘gluing’ them to my inner abdominal wall. The surgeons removed the adhesions, freeing my intestines.

My OB/GYN explained all of this (along with photos, that I will refrain from posting on the internet) at my post-op appointment. She said she had no idea if the endometriosis was causing my digestive symptoms and only time could tell. At the point of that appointment, nine days post-op, I was still drugged up on painkillers, in pain, and couldn’t tell any difference besides the fact I had two new holes on my belly. The only thing I knew for sure was I had a diagnosis: endometriosis.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
It is difficult to tell from the shadows in this photo, but I was very swollen/bloated post operation. In fact I gained 10lbs from the surgery gas and more, which quickly went away after a week or so.

How I’m doing now: 18 months post-diagnosis

This whole post was very emotional for me to write – to relive the struggle and the frustration and the hopelessness. But perhaps even more emotional is for me is to look back on the months since my diagnosis.

Six weeks post diagnosis:

At six weeks post op, I felt good.

About two weeks post-op I noticed something: I wasn’t in pain. And I don’t mean operation-related pain. I realized that I had been living with every day pain for I don’t know how long, and it only took not having it to realize it had been there in the first place. I had grown so resigned to my daily pains that I didn’t even consider them my primary symptom.

As for my primary symptom? Well, things were ‘flowing smoothly’ so to speak, and my stomach was no longer bloated after everything I ate. I could go to work and actually have leftover energy to function afterwards. I wrote this six weeks post-op, when I originally published this blog post:

“Each day that goes by, I am more and more sure that endometriosis was the key in a locked door I have been running at head-on for years on end.

I am honestly tearing up as I write this. It has only been six weeks of this optimal health, but already I am afraid it won’t be forever. I know endometriosis is an incurable, progressive condition. Although my adhesions and endo implants were removed during surgery, they will likely return. I just hope I can be one of the lucky people to experience years of health before a second surgery is required. Endometriosis is something I will be dealing with for the rest of my life and I want to learn how to live that life well, and alongside it, instead of against it.”

Six months post op:

I became more familiar with my endo symptoms, what a flare felt like, and what triggered a flare. Overall, I felt miles better than I had for years before my diagnosis. I was fully committed to pelvic physical therapy, which I attended weekly. I slowly got back into exercising because I’d set myself a goal…

Six months after waking up in the hospital bed with my endometriosis diagnosis, I hiked to Everest Base Camp in Nepal! This was a hugely emotional experience for me, looking back on how far my body had come in such a short time. Before my surgery, getting out of bed was challenging – not to mention high altitude trekking! I began seeing my body, and the pain I’d experienced, in a positive light for the strengths it had given me.

Unfortunately, that’s not the end of the story.

1.5 years post op:

I am writing this in 2020, and feel I owe it to many of you to update my endometriosis journey as this blog post has become very popular. Sadly, as we know, endometriosis is a chronic illness – meaning there is no cure. I have experienced health set backs in the last year or so and I believe this is due to recurring endometriosis.

What I learned is that the type of surgery I had, called ablation, was an outdated form where the endometriosis lesions are burned off rather than cut out. The gold standard of endometriosis treatment is a type of surgery called excision, where the endo is cut out from the root. With excision, there is an extremely low recurrence rate and women can usually avoid the stories of multiple painful endo surgeries in their lifetime. Unfortunately, only very specialized gynecologists can perform this surgery.

I learned this information after joining Nancy’s Nook Endometriosis Education, which is a group on Facebook. I would encourage you, too, to join this group and read up on all the materials there.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
A few days post operation, my stomach was not quite as swollen but it was still very painful to walk, reach, and lean forward or back.

Moving forward: What’s next for my health and endometriosis journey?

A diagnosis is just the first step in a long health journey. Although endo cannot be cured, there are ways to treat and manage its symptoms. Surgery and removal of endo is obviously the first step (and preferably, this is excision surgery not ablation surgery like what I had).

Monitoring my endometriosis has become a way of life for me. I’ve tried to balance a more natural approach, free of artificial hormones or awful awful drugs like Lupron, with a medical approach such as trialing (safe) medication. I found this balanced approach helped me tune in to my symptoms and triggers in the early stages, and has helped me identify recurring symptoms over a year later.

Here are some things I did (and do) to manage endometriosis:

    • Educated myself in Nancy’s Nook facebook group
    • Read Ask Me About My Uterus a memoir by Abby Norman
    • Read Endometriosis Health and Diet Program by Dr. Andrew Cook and adopted some of the philosophies
    • Practice yin yoga, hiking, and other lower impact exercise
    • Started taking RainbowLight Women’s One multivitamin with B12 to prevent recurring vitamin deficiencies
    • Started taking this magnesium citrate powder nightly to help with bowel movements
    • Bought an infrared heating pad to help reduce pain when on my period (I like this kind because it’s more portable)
    • Committed to pelvic physical therapy
    • Practice self myofascial release I learned in physical therapy (I spray this magnesium oil first before massaging my adbomen).
    • Trialed muscle relaxant drugs for pain relief (this failed as they made me too sleepy to function!)
    • Trialed Motegrity, a new constipation medication, which I currently still take. I started this because my digestive symptoms returned.
    • Rub Doterra Deep Blue natural pain relief over my abdomen and other painful areas which really helps!
    • Give myself permission to rest when I need it
    • Biweekly therapy to help cope with the mental health effects of living with chronic illness


The next big step in my endo journey:

As I mentioned, sadly since I initially wrote this post my endometriosis symptoms have come back. I am happy to say, though, that as of mid 2020 I have a referral to a “Nook-approved doctor.” If you join the facebook group I mentioned above, you’ll find a list of approved endo specialist surgeons who can perform excision surgery. Only one such surgeon lives in my state.

I have a referral to see him and discuss my future surgery options, and will update this post (and my other endometriosis content here and on Instagram) as things develop.

Many doctors aren't aware that IBS can actually be bowel endometriosis. This is my bowel endometriosis story, and the long journey to a diagnosis. #endometriosis #chronicillness #bowelendometriosis #ibs #health #wellness
Casual pool reading this past week. You can see one of my incision scars in the left corner… healing up so well!

Endometriosis resources

Before I close, I want to provide some amazing resources on endometriosis that have really helped me this past month.

Endometriosis research centers

Endometriosis blogs/Instagrams

Join in the conversation.

An immense thank you to anyone who has read through this entire post. I tried to shorten it but I also didn’t want to minimize the journey I’ve been on, and that anyone with an undiagnosed chronic illness experiences.

But it’s not just about ME and MY disease though. Having any illness can feel incredibly isolating. Especially if you are traveling which is already a challenge to health. If you have a story to share, please feel welcome to do so in the comments below or on my Instagram.

THANK YOU FOR READING!! <3

Sarah xx

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2 Responses

  1. Thank you for posting your story! This is exactly like my story! I am 2 years post-op and I’m back at the Gastroenterologist again with severe bloating! I’m afraid it’s time for the bowel resection that I refused during the surgery 2 years ago. Will follow you on facebook to see how things are going. Thank YOUUUUUU for sharing!!!!! You are so brave.

    1. Oh no, I hope it doesn’t come to that! And thanks for reading. Have you joined the Nancy’s Nook group on Facebook yet? If not, it has some incredible resources and a list of specialist endometriosis surgeons. Maybe one of them could help you avoid the resection. I’m currently waiting for my surgery with one of them, myself. Best of luck <3

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